To anyone out there who's thinking of going out with a single mom, think again. And again. The game is just not the same.
We've been there, we've done that. We're so jaded and seasoned sometimes I think the reason why we agree to go on a date with someone is that we just need a punching bag. Oh yeah, I just realised that on a date, my conversation will be riddled with sarcasm and things like "why-the-heck-do-you-wanna-go-out-with-me in the first place" questions.
And please, spare me the surprises. Spontaneity and spur of the moment deals may be romantic but with three kids, realistic arrangements maybe more... REALISTIC. I can't just waltz to the next midnight show with you any day of the week. You can't just call me up at 5.30pm and expect me to have dinner with you at 7.00! Believe me, if I could, I would.
And then there's the reservation thingy. We'll just go, hey, let's not try to like this guy so much because he ain't seen nothing yet. We may look like we're vulnerable, but we're actually not. I may look and act like your persian kitty, but you know I'm a tigress deep down.
You know when you were younger you'll have a checklist of the things that you like in a guy when you go out with him? Cute, check. Rich, check. Sense of humor, check. Tight ass, check. For me personally, it's a checklist of negativities. I find faults, I find defects. Loser, check. H*rny toad, check. Fake-ass, check. I can smell it from a mile away and as the saying goes, "There is no fooling a single mother."
Having said all that, it's not hard to date a single mom at all. Just leave your player moves at the door, and be your true, honest self. Because unlike single hot chicks, us yummy mummies are in no rush and if it doesn't work out, we're cool enough to be your friends.
And a MAJOR plus point for dating a single mom - "a woman who's become a mother knows what real, boundless love feels like - she's better capable of giving it too."
And it wasn't me who said that OK :)
9 comments:
there you go! the truth has spoken. dont they know that we-women (who's become a mom) no longer accept as gospel everything we hear coming out from the man's mouth? they may be casanovas, but we, who are jaded and seasoned are not bimbos!! who are they trying to cheat?? the hackneyed phrases they use, the tricks... aarghh.. come on!
anyway, like you said, be realistic! why dont we give them a whack so that they wake up and be truthful.
Guile...you're still a wife. Why do you need someone to date you?
Jazzy...is that Whopper Jr thingy still on? I'm depressed.
guile, ya.. like please la kan. And one more thing, I hate it when they think that single moms are in desperate need of "rescuing" or "some good lovin'". Gimme a freakin break!
SD, she didn't say she needs to date anyone lah! she just wants to whack people and wake them up. I'm on a diet, so no Whopper Jrs for the next month or so.
Jazzy...hmm..no Whopper Jr? I'll see you in the Republic of Muar as planned.
I feel like flying to either Thailand or back to Sabah soon.
Hehe, there's no conventional way to romance a single mom, huh?
So you free on the weekends? Just SMS me when you are.
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HAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!! "asallamualaikum"
theta, it's actually quite fun. and for the first time ever you can date and be your real genuine self. no self consciousness at all. hahah!
meandmylife... waalaikumsalammmmmm.. But he's cute!
You big B. Keep you hands off ssalamualaikum boy. He's too nice for you.
hey hanazie, what if Big B needs someone nice after all.. Hahahahahaha.. There's something weirdly attractive in that assalamualaikum. Ok, ok, enough...
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